November 15th, 2002



I very infrequently talk about anyone I know who I have reason to be angry with, because frankly, I'd rather not be (or stay) angry at anyone... I just don't have the emotional time and energy for it.

I will only say this -- the inability to deal with anger is not sexy. It is not empowering. It is not even honest, because anger without reason and truth never could be.

Anger unrestrained is poison -- to others, yes, but especially to yourself -- and in this case, it has cost you a friend.